1.<=
span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'> What should I do if my child wants=
to
quit?
There will come a time when your child says, "I'm too tired to go to c=
lass
today." This is a critical point in a child's training. This is when y=
ou
help teach them about follow through and the never-quit attitude.
Don't be concerned about "pushing it on your child." This is hogw=
ash.
Children wouldn't go to school, brush their teeth or clean their room if you
didn't "push it on them." There's a big difference between helpin=
g a
child follow through on a goal they agreed to and force-feeding something o=
n a
child.
When you begin the classes agree with your child on some short-term goals s=
uch
as green belt or brown belt with the understanding that there will be no
quitting until the goal is achieved. The real goal in the training should be
black belt, but until you've had a chance to really understand what it take=
s to
earn a black belt, it's best to set a more reachable initial goal. Once you=
've
determined that black belt is your goal, commit to it with full enthusiasm.=
However, it's unrealistic to expect a child not to, at some point, rebel
against the effort. This is natural and should not lead to quitting. Quitti=
ng
can quickly become a bad habit. Facing these types of challenges is part of=
the
training inherent in the martial arts.
2.<=
span
style=3D'mso-spacerun:yes'> How can I motivate my child to con=
tinue?
Staying with a goal without quitting is an integral skill that has to be
instilled by the parent. This is the very foundation of goal setting and ac=
hievement.
Quitting is the very foundation of under-performance and failure. The world=
is
full of great starters. Teach your child that it’s the ability to set
goals and see them through to their completion that's most important.
When you've been attending with the child and know exactly what's been
happening in class, you can help re-motivate the child into getting to clas=
s by
reminding them of how much they enjoy the last class and that they can look
forward to seeing their friends in class.
Sincerely,=
=
DAVID M. PERREAULT, 5=
th
Dan
Chung Sah Nim (Master
Instructor/Owner)
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